Premarital Intensives
Found in Northern Virginia area (including Fairfax, Tysons,
Alexandria, Arlington, Centerville and neighboring locations).
Congratulations, You're Getting Married! 🎉
You're engaged! That’s a big deal and we are genuinely so happy for you.
But let’s be honest: while this is an incredibly exciting time, it can also be… a lot.
Maybe you're juggling vendor emails, Pinterest boards, guest lists, and family expectations. You're booking venues and dropping deposits while also fielding unsolicited opinions about your dress, food, or whether your second cousin’s kid can bring a plus one.
Meanwhile, somewhere in the middle of cake tastings and honeymoon planning, you may be wondering:
Are we actually ready for marriage?
Why do we keep getting stuck in the same argument?
How will we handle money, religion, kids, or in-laws?
Is it normal to feel overwhelmed right now?
If any of that sounds familiar, you’re not alone and that’s exactly why Premarital Counseling Intensives exist.
What Are Premarital Counseling Intensives?
Premarital Intensives are a focused, short-term therapy experience designed to help couples:
Have meaningful, structured conversations
Strengthen communication and emotional connection
Prepare for real-life marriage beyond the wedding
You’ll meet online with a licensed therapist four times, for two hours each session. That’s 8 hours of guidance, insight, and support
Tailored to your unique relationship, personalities, and goals.
No stuffy lectures or awkward roleplays.
Just real talk about the things that matter most, in a way that feels safe, productive, and refreshingly honest.
Why Couples Choose Premarital Counseling Intensives
Let’s be real. Planning a wedding is one thing. Planning a life together is another.
Whether you’ve been together for years or are newly engaged, it’s completely normal to have questions, fears, or “wait, have we talked about that?” moments.
Premarital intensives give you space to talk about the big topics before they become major stressors in your marriage.
Here are some common areas we cover:
💬 Communication : learning how to talk (and listen) in ways that build connection, not conflict
💸 Finances : how you each approach money, budgeting, saving, and spending
⛪️ Faith & Values : exploring religious, cultural, and family traditions that may impact your life together
💞 Intimacy : physical, emotional, and relational expectations in marriage
👨👩👧👦 Family & Boundaries : navigating in-laws, chosen families, and how you’ll create your own
👶 Parenting : even if you're not ready for kids now, it’s good to know where you both stand
📣 Conflict Styles : understanding how you each handle tension and how to repair after disagreements
What’s Included in Your Premarital Intensive:
🕰 Four 2-Hour Virtual Sessions (total of 8 hours)
💻 Secure Online Platform accessible from anywhere in the DMV (DC, Maryland, Virginia)
❤️ Personalized Sessions Based on Your Relationship Needs
🧠 Licensed, Culturally Sensitive Therapist with Experience in Couples & Premarital Work
☁️ No Judgment, Just Clarity
And we love working with couples navigating cross-cultural, interfaith, or identity-specific conversations. Your stories matter and you deserve a space that honors both of your voices.
Who Is This For?
This experience is for couples who:
Are engaged or planning a long-term commitment
Want to feel more confident, connected, and prepared for marriage
Are navigating different beliefs, cultures, or communication styles
Have hit a few bumps and want to work through them before saying “I do”
Or maybe just want a neutral space to ask, “Are we doing this right?”
Whether you’re feeling solid or slightly unsure, our intensives help you pause and look at the foundation you’re building together, with honesty and heart.
Why It’s Worth It
Think of it like this:
You’re spending thousands on your wedding; the dress, the venue, the flowers.
But what about your marriage?
The thing that happens after the cake is cut and the last dance ends?
Premarital intensives are an investment in the part that lasts.
You’ll understand your partner on a deeper level
You’ll have tools to handle conflict with more calm and less fear
You’ll walk into marriage feeling prepared, not just in love
Couples who do premarital counseling often report higher satisfaction, lower divorce risk, and better long-term communication.
Payment plans are available. We do not accept insurance for intensives.
A little About Your Therapist
Hi, I’m Kumbe Anabelle Hwang, LCSW, licensed therapist Blooming Days Therapy. I specialize in premarital counseling and relationship therapy because I believe every couple deserves to feel connected, understood, and prepared for the next chapter of life together.
If you’re engaged or in a committed relationship, you’ve probably already felt how exciting, but also stressful, planning for marriage can be. Maybe you’ve noticed small disagreements becoming bigger, or you want to make sure you’re both on the same page before you walk down the aisle. That’s exactly why I created my Premarital Intensive, to help couples slow down, have meaningful conversations, and build a solid foundation before saying “I do.”
We’ll dive into topics like communication, finances, family, intimacy, values, and conflict resolution—without judgment or awkwardness. My goal is to help you leave each session feeling more connected, more confident, and more prepared for marriage.
My Premarital Intensive is perfect for couples who want to go deeper without committing to weekly therapy. You’ll get four 2-hour sessions (totaling 8 hours), focused on your relationship’s strengths and areas for growth. Everything is virtual, so you can join from anywhere in Virginia or Maryland.
You’re already investing in your wedding. This is your chance to invest in your marriage. Let’s make sure you start off with clarity, connection, and the tools to thrive together.
Ready to strengthen your relationship?
Reach out today to schedule your premarital counseling intensive.
Location & Availability
All sessions are held online, making them perfect for busy couples across:
Washington, D.C.
Northern Virginia (Fairfax, Arlington, Alexandria, Loudoun)
Maryland (Montgomery County and surrounding areas)
Because sessions are virtual, you can join from your couch, your car (parked, please!), or wherever life takes you.
Schedule Your Free Consultation
We offer a free 15-minute consultation to talk through the process, answer your questions, and see if this is the right fit for your relationship.
No pressure. No commitment. Just a chance to meet, ask questions, and feel things out.
Ready to give your marriage the strongest possible start?
Let’s Get You to “I Do” with Clarity, Confidence, and Connection
You’ve got your venue.
Your playlist is fire.
The countdown is on.
Let’s make sure your relationship feels just as ready as your color palette.
We’re here for the real talk, the kind that strengthens your bond and brings you closer.
Not just for the wedding, but for the life you’re building together.
📍 Serving couples across Virginia, Maryland, and DC virtually.
🌿 Let’s get you set up for the marriage you really want.
