You can explain exactly what happened. You've analyzed it, journaled about it, even talked about it in therapy. And still, certain conversations make your chest tight, certain looks from a parent shut you down completely, certain moments at work send you right back to a version of yourself you thought you'd left behind. That's not a failure of insight. That's how trauma lives in the body. EMDR is designed to reach what talk therapy alone sometimes can't.

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You've done the work. The reaction still shows up.

Many of the people I work with are high-achieving adults, professionals, second-generation immigrants, daughters of high-expectation households who are competent in every area of their lives except the one that started earliest. They know how to succeed. They've built careers, maintained relationships, and kept it together in every room they've walked into.

But something old keeps surfacing. A parent's tone of voice. A dynamic at work that mirrors home. The guilt that follows any attempt to choose themselves. The exhaustion of performing steadiness when nothing inside feels steady.

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You love your family and still feel suffocated around them.

You're proud of everything you've built and still don't feel like it's enough.

You're not looking to cut anyone off. You're looking to stop reacting from a place that isn't yours anymore.

EMDR can be particularly effective when childhood experiences — emotional suppression, high-pressure expectations, navigating two cultures at once — have left patterns that insight alone hasn't been able to shift.

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What is EMDR therapy?

EMDR stands for Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing. It's a research supported therapy that helps the brain reprocess distressing memories so they lose their emotional charge. You won't be asked to relive anything in painful detail. The goal is to change how a memory is stored, so it stops pulling you back into old feelings every time something triggers it.

It's structured, goal oriented, and clinically grounded. If you're someone who appreciates having a clear framework for growth, EMDR tends to feel like a natural fit.

What to expect in EMDR therapy sessions

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Phase 1: History and preparation

We start by building a full picture of what's brought you here and establishing a foundation of safety before we go anywhere near the hard material.

Phase 2: Identifying targets

Together we identify the specific memories, beliefs, or experiences that are still active in your present life — the ones that show up when they shouldn't.

Phase 3: Reprocessing

Using bilateral stimulation, we work through targeted memories in a structured way. The goal is to reduce the distress attached to them and replace limiting beliefs with ones that actually fit who you are now.

Phase 4: Integration

We close each session carefully and track progress over time, ensuring the work is sustainable and that you're not leaving sessions more activated than when you arrived.

No. EMDR doesn't require you to narrate your history in full. Some of the most effective reprocessing happens with minimal verbal detail. You won't be asked to relive anything more than you're ready for.
This comes up often, especially for high-achieving adults who grew up in households where things looked fine on the outside. Trauma isn't defined by how dramatic something was. It's defined by how it affected your nervous system and whether it still does. If it still does, it's worth addressing.
No. The work isn't about assigning fault. It's about helping you respond to the present from the present — not from the fears and rules that made sense when you were younger but don't serve you now. You can love your family and still need to work through what was hard.
Yes. EMDR is a process, not an ideology. It doesn't require you to adopt any particular worldview or abandon the values that matter to you. We work within your framework, not against it.
Yes. EMDR can be delivered effectively via telehealth and is available to clients in Virginia and Maryland, including the Northern Virginia area — Fairfax, Arlington, Alexandria, Centreville, and Loudoun County.

What people often want to know
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EMDR Therapy for Adults in Fairfax and across Virginia

You've worked through it in your head.Your body hasn't caught up yet.

You've done the work. The reaction still shows up.

What is EMDR therapy?

What to expect in EMDR therapy sessions

Phase 1: History and preparation

Phase 2: Identifying targets

Phase 3: Reprocessing

Phase 4: Integration

Do I have to talk through every detail of what happened?

What if I'm not sure my experiences count as trauma?

Will EMDR require me to blame or villainize my family?

Can EMDR work alongside my cultural or faith background?

Is EMDR available for telehealth sessions?

What people often want to knowbefore starting EMDR therapy